Do Not Fill Your Life to the Edges
Why We Need Room for the Unexpected I have noticed how easily an empty space can begin to look like a problem. If an hour is free, we give it another task. If we still have energy, we accept another responsibility. When our income increases, our expenses often rise with it. If a room has an empty corner, we feel tempted to place something there. We may believe that managing life well means using everything available to us. Yet a life planned to its full capacity can become surprisingly fragile. Imagine carrying a bowl filled with water to its edge. While the ground is smooth and your hands are steady, you may carry it without spilling anything. But one small stumble, sudden turn, or gentle touch is enough to send water over the rim. The disturbance does not need to be great. The bowl simply has no room to receive it. When an Ordinary Problem Becomes Too Much We often arrange our lives like that full bowl. We schedule every hour, use all our energy, spend nearly everything we earn, and ...